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Monday, October 8, 2012
International student on campus adjusts to OU’s lesbian, gay, bi-sexual, transgender and queer community
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8, 2012
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Williams, an OU international student who identifies as a queer male, traveled
the world and experienced varying levels of acceptance as a member of the queer
community.
Williams,
a music composition senior, said when he tells people he is queer, there is a
spectrum of responses from apathy to disgust.
“When I came out to people as a queer
man, they would either be like, ‘Cool, you’re gay. What’s for dinner?’ or ‘Let me think about this for three
months to see if I still want to be your friend,’” Williams said.
Willams said there are differing of
responses to the queer community at the University of Oklahoma. He said many OU students are
conservative, but college towns and metro areas tend to be more receptive of
the queer community.
A report by the Daily Beast says six
out of seven same-sex couples live in non-rural areas.
“At OU, many students from rural
communities do not have exposure to the queer community, so their responses
vary,” Wiliams said.
Williams grew up in Trinidad and
Tobago, a Caribbean island. He
said he knew he was gay from a young age, but did not say anything because his
culture did not allow same-sex relationships.
“There was no such thing being queer in
Trinidad,” Williams said. “There
is no sophisticated view of sexuality.
People in Trinidad don’t even acknowledge that gay people exist.”
Williams said he wanted to move out of
Trinidad and Tobago into a more accepting community. He won an international scholarship to study at an
Italian high school and at OU.
Williams
is constantly looking for ways to improve his experience in life at OU with
passion and enthusiasm, according to his friend Parker Manek, history senior.
“He
has made life better by his sense of realistic optimism and positivism,” said Manek,
president of the OU club for gays, lesbians, bi-sexuals, transgender and
friends.
Williams said he defends other people
in his community by standing against those who speak hurtful words or act
offensively.
“I call people out on things because some
things are just not OK to say in certain situations,” Williams said. “I have a thick skin so most comments
don’t bother me, but I try to protect other people in the audience who might be
more sensitive and will be hurt more deeply.”
Williams’ friend and former roommate
Robert Wild, said, Williams is a great representative for the queer community
because of his honesty and strength.
“If somebody says or does anything that
is out of line, he quickly lets them know that what they've done is hurtful and
wrong,” Williams said. “He doesn't tell them that it's just wrong, he tells
them why it's wrong.”
Monday, October 1, 2012
OU introduces coed floor for freshmen
OU introduces coed floor for freshmen
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The University of Oklahoma’s first freshmen coed floor this year will determine expansion of coed floors in the residence halls.
Fifty freshmen live on a coed floor in Walker Tower with separate suites for male and female students to test the success of the pilot program while 400 students are on a waiting list.
Amy Buchanan, housing and food assistant director in community experience, said different student groups, such as the Housing Center Student Association submitted proposals to President Boren and met with him this summer to decide to offer a pilot coed floor option for the 4,300 freshmen living on campus.
“Offering coed freshmen floors involved a lot more people than housing and food because President Boren made the ultimate decision to give the option of coed housing,” Buchanan said. “The decision came from higher up than us, but we were obviously very supportive of the president’s decision.”
Buchanan said OU’s housing and food services wants to offer the best options for students. She said there are not yet plans for the future of coed halls because the program started one month ago, but President Boren will make the ultimate decision.
“Our staff is always available for any issues the students bring to us, so we can provide housing options that make students feel more comfortable and safer in the environment,” Buchanan said.
Bracken Marburger, aviation management freshman, said OU should continue to offer coed floors because of the long waiting list and good community experience.
“I thought living on the coed floor would be cool,” Marburger said. “It’s not that big of deal to live next door to a girl. It’s real world stuff, just like you would be living next to girls on your street or in an apartment complex.”
“It’s pretty chill and easygoing,” Marburger said. “I like that there are no visiting hours. In high school, everything is so structured and strict, and I think college should be more lenient.”
Buchanan said all the staff in housing and food wants the students to connect with someone in their community.
“The community on the freshmen floor seems to be very close,” said Buchanan. “They’ll all be hanging out in the social lounge and people have their doors open. It seems they are connecting and getting a positive experience for everyone of the floor”
The university introduced the option for upperclassmen coed floors in fall 2010. Fifty upperclassmen students live on the coed floors in the Johnson wing of Adams Tower, according to Buchanan.
According to the Journal of American College Health, 90 percent of American college dorms are coed.
CASSI TONEY
The University of Oklahoma’s first freshmen coed floor this year will determine expansion of coed floors in the residence halls.
Fifty freshmen live on a coed floor in Walker Tower with separate suites for male and female students to test the success of the pilot program while 400 students are on a waiting list.
Amy Buchanan, housing and food assistant director in community experience, said different student groups, such as the Housing Center Student Association submitted proposals to President Boren and met with him this summer to decide to offer a pilot coed floor option for the 4,300 freshmen living on campus.
“Offering coed freshmen floors involved a lot more people than housing and food because President Boren made the ultimate decision to give the option of coed housing,” Buchanan said. “The decision came from higher up than us, but we were obviously very supportive of the president’s decision.”
Buchanan said OU’s housing and food services wants to offer the best options for students. She said there are not yet plans for the future of coed halls because the program started one month ago, but President Boren will make the ultimate decision.
Students spend time together in a dorm room on a coed floor in Adams Tower, Thursday Sept. 27, 2012. Each suite of two rooms with a shared bathroom has only one gender on the coed floors |
Bracken Marburger, aviation management freshman, said OU should continue to offer coed floors because of the long waiting list and good community experience.
“I thought living on the coed floor would be cool,” Marburger said. “It’s not that big of deal to live next door to a girl. It’s real world stuff, just like you would be living next to girls on your street or in an apartment complex.”
“It’s pretty chill and easygoing,” Marburger said. “I like that there are no visiting hours. In high school, everything is so structured and strict, and I think college should be more lenient.”
Buchanan said all the staff in housing and food wants the students to connect with someone in their community.
Residents on the coed floor talk, relax and study in the social lounge in Adams Tower, Thursday, Sept. 27, 2012. The residents share a study room in addition to a large social lounge area. |
“The community on the freshmen floor seems to be very close,” said Buchanan. “They’ll all be hanging out in the social lounge and people have their doors open. It seems they are connecting and getting a positive experience for everyone of the floor”
The university introduced the option for upperclassmen coed floors in fall 2010. Fifty upperclassmen students live on the coed floors in the Johnson wing of Adams Tower, according to Buchanan.
According to the Journal of American College Health, 90 percent of American college dorms are coed.
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